When I was a little girl I remember the saying,”sticks and stone may break my bones but words will never hurt me.” So when other children weren’t very nice that saying was always in the back of my mind. Then, as I became an adult I realized that some things that people say you have a choice to receive or reject. After trial and error I discovered something that has since changed my life. I discovered that it’s not negative thoughts that affects me but rather, how I feel about any particular thought that creates my reality. So, the key is to change how you FEEL about any thought you may have . Just remember that it takes at least 21 days to form a habit, so if negative feelings don’t change within that period of time, you have now formed a habit that is toxic to your reality. So, when you say affirmations like, “I can’t do anything right or,”bad things always happen to me,” you have pronounced that over your life and generally speaking that it what you get more of. I once heard someone say, “don’t have a thought that you don’t want to become your reality.” But how about not SAYING anything that you don’t want to become your reality either. The bible says it like this,”therefore I say unto you, what things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that you receive them and ye shall have them.” And, we all know,”life and death is in the power of the tongue, choose life.” We sure know how to quote a bible scripture, don’t we? Now, if only we just believed it with ALL CERTAINTY. Once I put into practice of being aware of my thoughts life got so much better.(you can shout right there). As a bonus, it made me began to put my trust in God completely and know without a doubt that the Lord really is on my side! And, if God is for you__________(fill in the rest).